Let’s talk about the first date. When you’ve never met this person before because you met on a dating app, the first date is a vibe check. This is not the time to look for fireworks or chemistry. Sad ladies, I want you to be paying attention to if you feel safe. If you feel like you could be friends with this person. Cause emotional safety and a foundation of friendship are the biggest predictors of a long-term relationship. And chemistry can grow over time. You’re really looking for a fireplace