At DMNews she applies the Inner/Outer/Why framework to everyday communication dilemmas and long-running conflicts. Wesley ...

Real conversations start below the surface. At DMNews, we use a simple, disciplined approach we call The Direct Message to uncover that depth. It’s more than a slogan—it’s the lens that shapes how we ...

The next time you share a meal with a boomer, maybe you’ll appreciate their frankness with servers, their eagerness to ensure they’re getting good value, or the sense of tradition they bring when they ...

I’ve often joked that once I retired, I’d settle into a predictable life: leisurely mornings in my bathrobe, afternoons volunteering at the local literacy center, and weekends chasing my three ...

This article follows the Direct Message methodology, designed to cut through the noise and reveal the deeper truths behind the stories we live. Scroll any C-suite slide deck in 2025 and you’ll find ...

I write this with urgency. We are living through a slow-motion cognitive collapse – a collapse of our shared sense-making in the face of AI-generated confusion and media dysfunction. Every day brings ...

Tension – Expats rave about Japan’s efficiency and harmony, yet privately feel squeezed by rules they can’t quite name. Noise – Travel vlogs and corporate brochures flatten complex social codes into ...

This article follows the Direct Message methodology, designed to cut through the noise and reveal the deeper truths behind the stories we live. If someone puts you down, they’re disrespecting you; if ...

This is an AI generated image. The light in the corporate office was always too bright at 7:48 a.m.—too sterile for anyone who’d been up since 5, too unforgiving for anyone trying to pretend they were ...

This article follows the Direct Message methodology, designed to cut through the noise and reveal the deeper truths behind the stories we live. Dining out can be a joy – until a loud complaint echoes ...

Like most people drawn to that sentence, I didn’t just want to be productive. I wanted to feel in control. Of time. Of attention. Of my life. And so, I started building systems—beautiful, tactical, ...